Peut-ĂȘtre nous n'avons pas besoin d'amour. Peut-ĂȘtre c'est une aide que nous avons vraiment besoin (Maybe we don't need love after all. Maybe help it what we really need)

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March 24, 2014

Selfish

Are we selfish? Are we too self-fulfilling when we're scared of losing someone we love?

Is it because we will not be able to meet that person again? Or if we still can, then is it because we know deep down inside we will never have what we'd usually had? The moment we turn to strangers again, we will slowly lose the connection, physically.. then emotionally.. then all that is left will be memories. Is it what we are afraid of?

Then what it means to have someone in our life? Is that person will only be our property of happiness? Is the presence necessary for our happiness? And if so, then aren't we a bit selfish?

Yes, selfish. We want a person to be with us because we want to be happy. Is he or she happy? Have considered what he or she felt? Have we tried to make them happy too? Or are we too busy to make ourselves happy?

Then.. Love is selfish, no? Or it isn't? Then tell me why I haven't found such selfless love, when there are so many who said that it does exist. Then show me how it looks like, since there are many who believes so.

Am I too much in demanding for a selfless love? Am I too bizarre to question the existence of an altruistic affection? Is it too hard to try to give and to get an unconditional happiness?

Or am I just being too selfish to know?